Sunday, June 26, 2011

Coaching Through Generations

How is coaching and developing others different than it may have been in the past? What knowledge, skills, and attributes do coaches need to develop in order to be effective in today's complex business environment?

Coaching and developing others today differs from what it was years ago. For the first time in history, companies employ people from four different generations. The Traditionalists, Baby Boomers, Generation Xers, and Millennials that all work side by side (Lancaster & Stillman, 2005, p. 4). While companies have been learning to deal with diversity, many have overlooked the generational differences variable. Just like anything else, coaching and developing is bound to be affected by the kinds of differences that result from generational clashes.

Each generation has a different history, they’ve been influenced by different events, people, and things, and they have different goals, expectations, and values (Lancaster & Stillman, 2005, p. 18). A coach has to take all that into consideration. How can someone be an effective coach, communicate efficiently, and understand and support his coachee if they come from seemingly two different worlds? The things that are important to one person may not be as important to someone else.

A successful coach will first and foremost be aware that generational differences exist and are real. He will be willing to think outside the box and look at another point of view. In order to transcend generational differences, there has to be understanding, flexibility, and open-mindedness. It may not be easy to coach someone who is the same age as your parent or child and seems to speak a different language. A good coach, however, will be able to look beyond all that. Can you? Are you able to find a common language and bridge generational differences? Step back and consider your coachee in terms of his/her generation so that you may tailor your approach to best suit the experience.


Lancaster, L.C., & Stillman, D. (2002). When Generations Collide: Who They Are. Whey They Clash. How To Solve The Generational Puzzle At Work. New York: Harper Collins Publishers, Inc.