Everything discussed in these blogs comes down to one point – the idea of successfully combining leadership and management. It’s easy to get wrapped up in the daily responsibilities, issues, and surprises. We all have projects and deadlines, and most of us have someone above us to whom we have to answer. The current economic situation brought with it new challenges and new worries, further cementing our focus on daily organization.
While fewer in numbers, there are those who have the ability to focus solely on leadership. Although equally as important, leadership focus alone misses out on the absolutely crucial tasks often associated with daily operations of a business. Our goal then, as we work on improving ourselves as leader/managers, is to successfully combine the two, and designate our attention, efforts, and energy to both. It’s not an exact science and we have to be flexible. Focus has to vary according to need, situation, alignment of celestial bodies….etc. Your job as a successful leader/manager is to pay attention and know when to wear what hat. You must be able to not only assess the situation as it looks at the moment, but also to anticipate the future as much as possible.
Keep in mind that your journey’s focus should be on ongoing improvement. As we strive for excellence (not perfection), the journey has no real end. Instead, the achievement of each goal is but a stepping-stone as we move forward.
Sunday, July 31, 2011
Sunday, July 24, 2011
Leading by Example
“Do as I say, not as I do.” How well do people respond to that seemingly simple sentence? How well did you respond as a child? As an adult? As children we felt disappointment at hearing those words. As adults, that disappointment can easily morph into resentment.
Put yourself in a position of having to follow a leader who sends the message of do as I say, not as I do. Whether he actually says those words, or conveys the message with actions (or lack thereof), your response will be the same. Why should you follow a leader who doesn’t walk the walk? Would you find yourself questioning his ability to lead? How much respect would you have for him?
If you want your employees to take you seriously, all of these questions are worth asking as you examine your own position and leadership skills. Do you invite your employees to follow you as their leader by leading by example? Do you have their respect? Do you treat them as capable professionals, or as children who should simply do as you say, not as you do?
Set an example for others and inspire them to do what you want them to do by doing the right things yourself. It’ll be easier to get your employees on your team, and having their respect will make it simpler to be a more effective leader. Remember that your success as a leader is a work in progress, but it’s in your hands nonetheless. Learn from your mistakes and search for opportunities to improve yourself every day.
Put yourself in a position of having to follow a leader who sends the message of do as I say, not as I do. Whether he actually says those words, or conveys the message with actions (or lack thereof), your response will be the same. Why should you follow a leader who doesn’t walk the walk? Would you find yourself questioning his ability to lead? How much respect would you have for him?
If you want your employees to take you seriously, all of these questions are worth asking as you examine your own position and leadership skills. Do you invite your employees to follow you as their leader by leading by example? Do you have their respect? Do you treat them as capable professionals, or as children who should simply do as you say, not as you do?
Set an example for others and inspire them to do what you want them to do by doing the right things yourself. It’ll be easier to get your employees on your team, and having their respect will make it simpler to be a more effective leader. Remember that your success as a leader is a work in progress, but it’s in your hands nonetheless. Learn from your mistakes and search for opportunities to improve yourself every day.
Sunday, July 10, 2011
Persuasion and Relationships
Examining persuasion and relationships can sometimes seem like trying to figure out the old question of which came first – the chicken or the egg. Do your persuasive abilities affect the caliber of relationships that you’re able to form? Or are you more successful at persuading those with whom you already have existing relationships?
Consider the fact that relationships are a crucial part of everyone’s day at work. As long as we have some kind of contact with other people, we’re experiencing relationships. Successful managers/leaders know how to build relationships that are productive and beneficial. Power of persuasion can be quite handy when it comes to building relationships in the workplace because the right relationships can help to take you and your team to new levels of accomplishment.
On the other hand, your ability to influence and persuade your current employees depends on your existing relationships with each individual. Their image of you influences how receptive they will be to your persuasion attempts – trust, credibility, and expertise all play a big part. It’s in your best interest as an effective manager/leader to take care of the relationships in your professional life.
It’s a simple truth that the ability to influence appears to require building or having some kind of relationship. This seems to be the case regardless of the nature or longevity of the relationship. Whether it’s a store clerk influencing a sale or a manager working with people he sees daily, the ability to influence depends on relationships and our persuasive talents.
Given the importance of this topic, it’s worth expanding on a previous post that discussed some of the current theories of persuasion. Silberman (2000, p. 123) speaks of three ways to influence people – by connecting with others, assessing needs, and making a persuasive presentation. These suggestions make perfect sense. Connecting with others simply opens up a doorway for your persuasive attempts. Being able to correctly assess others’ needs, affords you the opportunity to provide the perfect solution. Finally, you can use the first two to make your persuasive presentation more effective.
Silberman, M. & Hansburg, F. (2000). People Smart: Developing Your Interpersonal Intelligence. San Francisco: Berrett-Koehler Publisher, Inc.
Consider the fact that relationships are a crucial part of everyone’s day at work. As long as we have some kind of contact with other people, we’re experiencing relationships. Successful managers/leaders know how to build relationships that are productive and beneficial. Power of persuasion can be quite handy when it comes to building relationships in the workplace because the right relationships can help to take you and your team to new levels of accomplishment.
On the other hand, your ability to influence and persuade your current employees depends on your existing relationships with each individual. Their image of you influences how receptive they will be to your persuasion attempts – trust, credibility, and expertise all play a big part. It’s in your best interest as an effective manager/leader to take care of the relationships in your professional life.
It’s a simple truth that the ability to influence appears to require building or having some kind of relationship. This seems to be the case regardless of the nature or longevity of the relationship. Whether it’s a store clerk influencing a sale or a manager working with people he sees daily, the ability to influence depends on relationships and our persuasive talents.
Given the importance of this topic, it’s worth expanding on a previous post that discussed some of the current theories of persuasion. Silberman (2000, p. 123) speaks of three ways to influence people – by connecting with others, assessing needs, and making a persuasive presentation. These suggestions make perfect sense. Connecting with others simply opens up a doorway for your persuasive attempts. Being able to correctly assess others’ needs, affords you the opportunity to provide the perfect solution. Finally, you can use the first two to make your persuasive presentation more effective.
Silberman, M. & Hansburg, F. (2000). People Smart: Developing Your Interpersonal Intelligence. San Francisco: Berrett-Koehler Publisher, Inc.
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