How good a listener are you? If you’re the boss, you may be thinking that others are supposed to listen to you, right? Well sure, but that’s only part of the equation. How important is it that you listen and do it well? As a leader/manager, you have the great responsibility of not only listening, but also actually hearing others. This may mean listening to your employees, your colleagues, your supervisor, and your customers. It means hearing the words, the messages, and any hidden meanings.
Being a good listener can benefit you in so many ways. Listening to others can provide you with the opportunity to receive valuable feedback and great ideas. It can also invite others to share with you promoting open communications and the exchange of ideas. As a good listener you will model the way and set a good example for others.
While at a first glance listening may not seem as important as the mountain of other responsibilities that you face each day, it can prove to be detrimental if neglected. There’s an old adage that tells us that having two ears and one mouth means that we should listen trice as much as we speak. Clearly there’s a great deal of wisdom in those words.
So how good a listener are you? Take some time this week to consider your listening style, habits, and effectiveness.
