Consider the fact that when it comes to effective leadership, self-confidence can make all the difference in the world. A self-confident leader can project exactly that in what he does, therefore inspiring his employees to trust and follow him. So how do you improve your self-confidence? There are several things to consider here:
1. Make the decision and follow through. This applies to improving your self-confidence as well as to all the decisions that you face as a leader/manager. Accept that life isn’t always black and white, so working in grey areas will happen. Although clear right answers don’t come by too often when making complex business decisions, hesitation and second-guessing can prove to be costly – instead gather your information, consult the right sources, and make the call.
2. Make peace with your humanity and accept that sometimes you will make mistakes. Regardless of your experience, level of education, or title, you are human, and as such vulnerable to making mistakes. Turn your mistakes into opportunities to learn and improve.
3. Project the image that will inspire others. Even if you’re feeling scared and unsure, focus on what your employees need to see to inspire them. Leading others (especially in difficult times) calls for showing more courage than fear.
4. Remain in control of yourself and your team. Take on the command position by knowing and acting on expectations for self and the team.
5. Be realistic in your expectations. While striving for excellence is great, don’t set your sights on goals so high that they become unrealistic. Being a leader doesn’t equate to being a superhero (although it may appear as such at times).
6. Look for guidance. Even the best need someone to teach and help them. Having a mentor is a must. Find someone who can teach and guide you – someone to support and keep you grounded.
7. Remain inspired. Being inspired isn’t always easy. We tend to get lost in our daily tasks as we take on projects and put out fires, but you must take the time to find and keep what inspires you – that which keeps you going and helps to make sense of it all. After all, you can’t inspire others if you’re not inspired yourself.
Given that your self-confidence has a great deal of effect on your leadership abilities, it’s in your best interest to take the time to give this some thought. Improving the self is always a good idea, so take each opportunity to strive for excellence. Finally, don’t confuse self-confidence and arrogance. After all, arrogance is quite the opposite of self-confidence.
